Crossed Lines and Covert Mines
In this episode of Narcissists, Gaslighters and Cheaters, Oh My!, hosts Behk and LAH talk with Amie Schulz, a therapist who vulnerably shares her real-life experience of being caught in an emotional affair with a coworker who exhibited covert narcissistic behaviors.
What unfolded wasn’t just betrayal—it was a campaign of manipulation and professional sabotage. When Amie asked for honesty, the dynamic shifted, and a smear campaign threatened her career and sense of self.
Amie walks us through the emotional toll of covert abuse, how easily boundaries can blur, and what healing looks like on the other side. She also opens up about the work she’s doing to repair her marriage and reconnect with herself after feeling completely lost.
In This Episode:
The start of the emotional affair and the slow buildup of manipulation
The confrontation — and the shocking smear campaign that followed
Breaking down covert narcissistic behavior in real time
How narcissists weaponize perception to damage careers and reputations
Amie shares how she lost her sense of self in the process
Healing in motion: therapy, marriage work, and self-reconnection
Amie’s advice for recognizing manipulation and protecting your energy
Follow Amie Schulz on Instagram: @amieschulztherapy
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Content Warning: This episode discusses various forms of toxic abuse, narcissistic abuse, cheating, and any topics that may disturb some listeners. Listener discretion is advised.
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